Anyone remember when, in the VIP room I said:
A month from now, nobody is going to remember or care what the hell this arguement was about, and posts will continue on as normal. If you just drop it, it will go away. I garantee.
And, shortly thereafter, the thread was locked, and it seemed like that was going to work. But now suddenly, Stress is picking a fight, the thread is back open and we have this crapball of a thread.
This is Stress's fault. Everything would have been fine right now if he'd just shut up.
I think Palzon's got a pretty balanced view of the situation. There's enough blame to go around for everyone. But the fact of the matter is, KB was right to pull the content from that thread. The manner in which he did it was wrong. He has apologized. That should be the end of it. But no. Stress and his dbb wannabes' had to keep stirring crap up over nothing. Thats whats got me ticked off.
My view of the DBB is, this is a forum for a community surrounding a game. There are members young and old. And, I can be as sailor-mouthed as the next person, but in open forum, here, I do try to keep the content clean. Racier stuff was meant to be put in the NHB, thats WHY it was MADE. I don't care what anyone posts in the NHB. But when I visit this forum, and when other people visit this forum, I don't think they come here for the drunken-sailor language environment. If that were the case, this forum would be called the PTMC Saloon, not CAFE, which implies a more refined clientele.
I don't want to read a bunch of trash all over the forums. And, if thats the case, I'd just assume not come here anymore. I've got plenty of reading material on the MS forums. I come here because its the Descent Community hub, its the people that are here, the memories that are here, the history - but I don't come here to read about how someone got hot sex for christmas. If I wanted to read about hot sex, I'd goto literotica. This is not the place for it.
Its like a town, okay? And we all have a yard here, and some of you don't give a damn about littering, and as you drive by, you're throwing trash out on my lawn. I don't want trash on my lawn. I don't think the DBB should be filled with trash talk.
I'm not the only voice in this community, and some of you don't care what other people say. But I do. And other do. And we've all been here long enough, that a little courtesy and respect will go a long way. I'm not asking you to wash your mouth out with soap. I'm not asking you to convert to christianity. I'm not asking you to bend over and recieve an enema. I'm asking you to be courtious and respectful of the rest of the people in the community, and keep the adult themed stuff where it belongs - in the NHB. Nobody will respect you if all you do is swear every other word.